I (31F) have encountered people (mostly men) that will match with the intention of meeting up for casual sex and then seem to get frustrated when I want to ask some baseline questions just to make sure we’re on the same page. This person is a complete stranger to me and I want to make sure at the very least I’m talking to the person I think I’m talking to, how they feel about using protection, and if they have the mindset of this being one and done or possibly a FWB/situationship. I think that’s pretty basic shit for safety and clarity.
Do people really just meet without knowing anything about the person they’re about to have sex with? Am I expecting too much?
